I wonder how many of us have been truly in love with someone. The kind of love that, when you are apart, you long to see each other, lay still and silent, gaze into one another’s eyes… Feel the warmth of each other as you embrace. Nothing in the world matters, just the two of you, knowing you are enough company even if you don’t have friends around.
The kind of love that doesn’t have doubts, for the both of you know you have found your soul mate, to have till death sets you apart. A kind of love, that never has escuses, impossible expectations. A kind of love that gives, not to self, but to others, because, both of you want others to experience what you have
Sadly, I don’t think I have ever experienced it, and with the kind of world we are in now, the chances of finding someone to experience that kind of love, is rare, and when you find that person, best to wait. Forget about today’s expectations of having sex, expectations of taking each other to posh hotels for dates… The expectations of being in contact with one another all the time. The expectations from friends that you should be doing that or this…Forget the expectations of how others perceive what love is, for what matters most, is what the two of you expect from one another…
Yes, if it’s love, it can wait.
ndeshmo 